"Women’s Day"

By Brother Parrish Lee

May 25th, 2014

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            I know what you’re thinking, “Oh, no!  Is he going to talk?  Yeah, yeah, he ain’t no woman!  It’s our day!”  Look at what good things the Lord has done.  I’m going to be very respectful of the time, because they nearly preached everything that was on my little list.  Yeah, I know; I know.

           So, giving honor to God, Who is the head of our lives.  Giving honor to our Savior, that water‑walking, that storm-chasing, that mountain-moving, that blood washing, that all-powerful, all-healing, all comforting, that God Who passes out words of Scripture and still loves us more and more anyway.  Giving honor to Him.  Thank You so much, Lord for all that You have done.  Giving honor to those who have gone before us:  In the Word, from the prophets and the priests, the elders, those who have left testimony, and those in the ministry, from our founding pastor, he and his family, our pastor, he and his family, and all those who have labored, and laid the path, and been faithful in what the Lord God called them to do.  Giving honor to all of y’all who are here today, who present yourselves, and say, “You know, Lord, this is what I need for my life.  It’s going to be incorporated in worship, because I attend to You, that when I go out to do things, You can attend to teaching me, guiding me, and leading me where I need to go.  Giving honor to all of those who have made the path for us to have this country today.  Tomorrow being Memorial Day, honoring those who were slain, given the ultimate.  There have been many that haven’t given a hundred, they’ve given fifty; come back with maybe one leg.  They’ve given so much.  There’s been many of us who have given time, but many have paid the price that we are able to enjoy our freedoms in this country today.  Giving honor to them.  And, giving honor to our ladies today.  May it be something that blesses down to the innermost parts of your soul.  And, men, we are not left out.  Let me just say in advance, next month is coming, and know that it’s our turn.  They have brought it today; we bring it next month. 

            Our theme of the month is, of course: 

2 Corinthians 5:17           Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new.

                But our Scripture for today is in Proverbs 31.  Where else would we go to today?  I’m going to be very judicious, expeditious, and complimentitious on time here.  Y’all can clock me on this one.  I might set a record. 

Proverbs 31:10-31            Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies. The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil. She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life. She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands. She is like the merchants' ships; she bringeth her food from afar. She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens. She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard. She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms. She perceiveth that her merchandise is good: her candle goeth not out by night. She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff. She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy. She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household are clothed with scarlet. She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple. Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land. She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant. Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come. She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness. She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness. Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her. Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all. Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised. Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.

                Would you bow your heads for just a moment?  Lord, we thank You so much for all that You’ve given us this day, and God, we pray that we might be able to take it into our lives, use it that we might minister to us, Lord God.  That we could go forth to accomplish more of Your will, Your work, to do exactly what You have appointed us to do, for You are our Lord.  You are the Potter, and we are the clay.  Lord, we thank You for Your good and perfect gifts.  We both thank and claim in Jesus’ name, and everyone said, Amen.

                So we have chosen this day to be set aside, that this would be Women’s Day, and this is not uncommon.  This is not an uncommon thing.  They do this in different ministries, and to different extents, but we have chosen today to set aside.  Yes, it’s good and proper, and, the truth of the matter is, every day is Women’s Day.  And every day is Men’s Day.  And every day is Brothers’ Day.  And every day is Sisters’ Day.  The Bible says to do good, especially to those of the Household of Faith (Galatians 6:10).  So, daily, we are to be good to each other.  To day is the day that we set aside to highlight our women.  Our virtuous, our awesome, our comforting, inspiring women.  So, from Eve to Hannah; from Sarah to Hagar; from Miriam to the wife of Manoah, the mother of Samson; Rebekah, Leah, Rachel, Anna, Elizabeth, and Mary.  With a legacy the Bible shows us and teaches us about the virtuous woman.  The Bible says that her price, or her worth, is far—not just equal to—but far above rubies.  I don’t know how much a ruby is worth, but, just the fact that it says, “…far above rubies…” lets you know that they are a precious, precious thing.  Down through the ages, the Bible has taken up time to talk about it and to highlight it.  Truly for us, it’s a wonderful thing, it’s an awesome thing to be in the presence of a virtuous woman.  Now, every family—you can’t have a family without having a woman—I know they’re trying to do some experiments, but we ain’t talking about that garbage.  You cannot be in a family without a woman, so everybody is subject to know the virtuous woman.  The virtuous woman is far above all the rest of them.  Down through the ages, the Bible highlights how precious it is.  If you’re in the presence of one, that’s a beautiful, awesome thing, but if you are in the presence of many, then how fortunate and blessed you are, because there is something about this virtuous woman.  The bible even says—it compares her to a merchant ship that bringeth food from afar.  It says that when you see—when I was in the Navy, when you’re out to sea for a while, guys kind of, you kind of eat a lot, you know?  After awhile, you start to run out of food.  You know you’re going to run out of food.  You’re happy when you see the supply ship out there.  You know you’re going to get pallets and pallets of something to drink.  You know, when you start running out of food, things get mighty hard.  They start scraping the bottom of the pan, and throwing it on your plate, like, be happy, and you’re like, “Hey, where’s my provision?”  So, when you see the merchant ship come, you know you’re going to have a refreshing of the supply.  You’re going to be glad, and you’re going to be happy about it, because you’re not going to be running out so quick.  That is what the Bible compares the virtuous woman to.  It says that, when she comes, she makes that kind of provision for all those around.  When there was dryness, and when there was hunger, she brings it in, and she enforces that all around her.  The virtuous woman.  So, if you’re in the company of virtuous women, you ought to thank God.  Thank God for that testimony.  Thank God for that. 

                It goes on to say who is blessed around her.  Yes, her husband is blessed, if she has one.  Her children are blessed.  Yes, her friends, and extended family, in fact, all those around her are blessed.  Have you ever been in a place, and someone just walked by, but there’s something about that person that walked by?  They kind of have a wholesomeness about them, or a godliness about them, and they just walk by, and, “If I could just get a little touch of that.  I don’t know what that is, but I sure would like to know more about it,” as they get in their car and drive away.  It is that special.  The Bible says that she plants.  She plants, and she plants—you know, my aunt was taking my little great-niece out for a—she was teaching her how to garden, and she said, “Did you see the things we planted?”  One of the bushes that she had planted, she said, “I hope it blossoms before you leave.”  It came up, and it had these big flowers, and they call them pirrones or something—I don’t know much about flowers, but they’re big and they were bushy, and my uncle was complaining because he was trying to mow the grass, and they were out there doing all that, and I was like, “You might have planted some flowers, but you’ve planted more in your granddaughter’s life than just showing her how to garden, you’ve planted some time.”  Th